If you’re looking to jazz things up in the bedroom and are new to the world of strap-ons, you probably have lots of questions. That’s understandable. After all, there are many different types and styles. How can you know which one to try? Fortunately, it’s not as confusing as it may seem. The key is to gain a basic understanding of the primary kinds, how they work and their benefits. Read this overview of strap-on sex toys, and you’ll be ready to make an informed decision about the one, or ones, that are right for you and your partner.
Non-Interchangeable or Interchangeable Strap-On
When considering strap-ons, it makes sense to start with the basics or most common types. These are your standard types of strap-ons, the ones you’ve probably seen depicted in movies or while shopping for intimate accessories. They involve a harness with an o-ring in which a suction cup dildo can be fitted. Some are interchangeable, meaning most dildos will fit in them. Others may be non-interchangeable and require a specific brand or type of dildo. They’re also quite universal when it comes to their use. People of any gender can use these comfortably.
Strapless Strap-On
These can be used without a harness, as one end is bulbous-shaped and can be held securely in place with only the muscles of the vagina. They’re great for those who don’t want the added expense of a harness or who prefer the ease of use and spontaneity of strapless strap-ons bring. Strapless strap-ons are popular strap-ons for women.
Double Sided Strap-On
Double-sided, or double-ended, strap-ons are meant to stimulate both partners. They typically require the use of a harness and are advantageous for those who want to enjoy double pleasure but still love the look and feel of a harness. Others may find that using a harness with a double-sided strap-on feels more secure than using a strapless strap-on.
Strap-On Underwear
Another option for anyone who finds harnesses to be unwieldy or uncomfortable is strap-on underwear. They come in various styles, including boxers, briefs and jocks. This makes them a versatile choice for those who like the idea of added customization. Simply choose the type you’re most comfortable with. As with harnesses, these underwear come with an o-ring for attaching the dildo. They’re easy to take off and put on, making them a flexible option as well. Plus, many women prefer their comfort.
Vibrating Strap-Ons
As you can imagine, a vibrating strap-on provides stimulating vibrations to enhance your sexual experience. Often, the vibration comes from a bullet vibrator that fits into the dildo. Anyone who wants to ramp things up a bit can benefit from choosing a vibrating strap-on. They provide added stimulation to the person on the receiving end but can also stimulate the partner doing the thrusting.
Starter Strap-On
If you’re a strap-on newbie, there are starter sets that can help to ease you into things. The dildo is usually smaller in size and smooth for ease of use and comfort. An easy-to-adjust harness with an O-ring to accommodate most standard dildos is included in a starter set. The harness is usually made for comfortable and to accommodate a wide range of sized wearers. These are the perfect option for you if you’re not sure what to buy. Starter strap-ons are designed to appeal to most users in order to give you a positive first experience. It is important to keep in mind that trial and error should be expected. Over time, you’ll discover the types of strap-ons that you like best and will feel secure in their use.
Plus-Size Strap-Ons
Larger wearers may want to look for a plus-size harness. Doing so increases your chance of finding a comfortable fit. After all, you certainly don’t want a painful or tight harness distracting you from getting into the moment.
There you have it, a rundown of the most common types of strap-on sex toys for your pleasure. Look for the best options you can afford to enhance your experience and stay safe. Strap-ons made of cheap materials can be unhealthy and aren’t likely to last. Dildos made of medical-grade silicone are recommended. Have fun exploring!